Telling Your Story

The Beauty of Silence

Reflection by Blaise van Hecke

I just spent a week in Bali to reunite with family members from Tokyo and Australia and to meet my youngest nephew. Without realising it, we booked this week during the Nyepi holiday. While a little inconvenient to have this during our one week of family time, it was in fact a wonderful experience.

Nyepi is the Balinese Day of Silence or their New Year. At around lunchtime the day before, the Balinese people are itching to finish work and get home to start their holiday. The night is full of colour, noise and ceremony to send the demons out to sea. You can feel the party atmosphere everywhere you turn.

To make sure that the demons don’t find their way back, Bali is as silent and dark as possible the next day. So Bali shuts down. This is quite a feat when you know how much of a vibrant, bustling place it is from day to day. So from six on Nyepi morning, until the following morning at six the idea is that you have a day of silence and reflection. This includes no electronics, no cooking, no lights. The airport is closed. The TV stations are closed.

When we woke on Nyepi, the front of our resort was blocked from the street with a tarpaulin so that no one could see out or in. It was very tempting to peek through a gap to see the street empty of cars and people, or to see if it was some kind of joke on the tourists.

As tourists, there were some allowances. The kitchen did make us food to a limited menu. So we didn’t need to starve. The staff were playful and couldn’t wait until dark so that we didn’t ask for anything else. I heard whispers that they were going to swim in the pool.

Did I spend the day in silence? Not totally because I had other family staying at the same place. But I did spend some time reading by the pool and many hours in my room writing. It was nice to be with my own thoughts. It’s always interesting that the writing becomes much easier when you have that space to think. I managed to tackle parts of my current project that had been slow moving.

It’s not possible to be in total silence. When I go to the bush, there is a surprising amount of noise from the river, birds, wind in the trees. Even during Nyepi you could hear dogs barking on the streets. But it is possible to create space around us by removing ourselves from the constant chatter of the world by getting off our phones, turning off the TV and finding a place to simply think. It’s very important for our creativity.

Blaise the book chick

One Comment

  • Maggie

    I spent a couple of weeks at the Bali Silent Retreat last year-no talking AT ALL and no eye contact. I read and thought a LOT. Weird experience, but it made me realise how much we babble about nothing just for the sake of it

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